They do it to make themselves feel better about themselves. You know that?
The people you’re worried about mocking or belittling you.
The people looking at you working hard at changing the way YOU feel about YOURself.
The people that scare you from joining a gym from building a business, from putting content on social media.The same people that will do their best to sabotage your efforts.
People pick on people they see as targets because of their own insecurities. Instead of working hard at bettering themselves they simply work at degrading the people around them.
You, you’re pushing forward without any need to drag anyone back. That my friend is something that defines you far more than your weight or your finances ever will.
Your ability to keep moving forward and ignore the noise, the nonsense and the belief that you have to live up to anything beyond your own expectations.
Every step is progress and you’re doing f****** great but raise those expectations as from me to you. I know you can do more. I know you’ve got more in you.
We all have our insecurities and at times we’re all guilty of judging someone we perceive as less fortunate than us.
In those moments we’re typically unhappy and insecure and we do it to make ourselves feel better about ourselves.
We all have those moments. If we repeat them……well…..that’s maybe what’s defining you. Stop it!
As they say.
‘Fortune fears the brave and crushes the cowardly’
I’m yet to meet a single person in life who bullied their way to success. They’re all stagnant with zero purpose, zero expectancies and the majority of them feel a huge degree of entitlement.
You’re entitled to f*** all. You have to work for things in life. That’s the reality.
Stop hoping to remain at the top of the proverbial table by stopping people passing you.
Never happens in life……I assure you. Its not you versus someone else. It’s not you versus everyone else. It’s you versus YOU.
Keep moving forward and driving towards where YOU want to be. Not where society expects you to be. Stop excusing yourself or sabotaging your efforts.
You deserve this.
You deserve success. In whatever it may be.
No one is shaming you. They’re shaming themselves, trust me.
Ask yourself. Do you physically want to be where you are? Does it make you happy and comfortable. If it doesn’t change it.
Stop trying to seek acceptance. You don’t need acceptance of others.
You need acceptance of yourself.
If you’re unhappy, work at changing it. If you’re broke and as a result unhappy, work at changing it. If you’re overweight and as a result unhappy work at changing it.
Life’s a series of steps in different directions and one of the most important things is NEVER to stop. If you keep moving every moment other people stop you pass them.
The greatest achievement in life is to achieve…..how big or little that is is irrelevant.
Create a work ethic and stick to it.
You got this…….
Your weight defines the people around you far more than it defines you. How they treat you or look at you. You have something that can be changed if you address your current habits and behaviours. They habitually and behaviourally mock or belittle others due to their own insecurities. They need to make themselves feel better about themselves by finding a flaw